Cyber LOVE

[M@Ldi+A]

I wanna share this dilemma of one friend... i know lots could relate here...

"His name is Tristan. Actually he's my bf now and we're 1 week pa lang naman. Grabe I really fell for this guy though we haven't met pa in person. He's also pinoy but lives in boston and we always chat, send sms and talk sa fone. He's sent me his pictures and he's such a cutie but minsan napapaisip ako kng sya nga yun but i do trust and believe na sya yun. He's such a sweet guy and nakikita ko talaga effort sa kanya na though online lang kme nagkakilala and kahit bago pa lang nararamdaman ko i can feel that he loves me so much. I don't know but I feel like he's my soulmate.Same bday pa sila ng best friend ko.

Is it really possible? He plans on coming here sa december.Ok lang ba if nainlove me agad?I cant help it sobra kasi. Kasi yung iba pag sinabing sa chat mo lang nakilala iba tingin nila kesyo pag nagkta na sa personal d nyo magugustuhan isat isa.Kinda naiinsecure din me kasi im not that pretty compared to his looks.But he says he loves me the way i am.hay sana nga totoo girls.. balitaan ko kayo if he really comes this december. I don't care if it's just online but I do admit that I love him so much, should I still continue with these?"

t'was quoted from one e-mail send to me... comment kayo...

[scarlett]

there is this inlove and then there is inlove. the tough question, and it is equally tough to answer is this: when is inlove inlove?

although, love cannot be always equated with reason or logic, it is important what you do with it. so there's this guy that you fell inlove with through the net....and then what?

expectations are set...impressions are made...assumptions are being assumed...but what if they do not turned out the way you expect them to be? would you still be inlove? ;D

[M@Ldi+A]

scarlett said:

there is this inlove and then there is inlove. the tough question, and it is equally tough to answer is this: when is inlove inlove? ;D

it is indeed a very tough question... so when can we say an inlove inlove? it's kinda tricky, right? usually we get stuck in myths that drive us absolutely crazy having this thought of being inlove. most of the time too, people are not really inlove with the person they are claiming to be inlove with but with the IDEA of LOVE itself. that's dangerous!

we need more than feelings of love to say we are really inlove. we need total commitment, minimum level of compatibility and mature character to distinguish this feeling of INLOVE.

often, when we got infatuated on somebody, we immediately claimed we are inlove...well, we are not coz IT TAKES TIME TO EXPERIENCE LOVE.